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The important thing: Stephanie is OK
The Infiniti, however, is not. Stephanie had an accident on the way home, and the end result is a crushed light and warped panel that makes it hard to open the door. It's a ten year old car. The chances of it being totaled are pretty high, I think. We may get enough to buy a used car with the payout.
I've already had one vehicle totaled in January. I don't need to lose this one.
My emergency backup Mazda was out of commission for two days last week from a dead battery. I've done the bus thing, and I'm not happy to go back to that life, but I may give in. I already calculated that whenever gas is more than $2.47 a gallon, the bus is cheaper. It's been more than a buck above that.
Sadly, I won't need to take the bus but four days a week, and it's not worth buying a monthly pass for just shy of $100 a month, so I'll be juggling tickets that have to be validated to get me to work. Naturally, the place where Stephanie drops me off downtown doesn't have working validators.
Is this what adulthood is all about, living with these inconveniences? Putting up with daily hassles and problems, and not complaining about it? Well, since I blog, I don't think I qualify as a non-complainer. It seems like there could be an easier or more reliable way to do things, but these things (like maintenance of ticket validators) isn't economical because most of the time you'd pay an employee to look for problems that aren't there.
I'm finding it difficult to cope with everything. I'm probably falling into depression again. I'm tired all the time lately. Unless someone replaced my coffee with decaf, I don't know what's going on with me.
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newroticgirl From: [info]newroticgirl Date: May 1st, 2008 04:20 am (UTC) (Link)
Yikes! Glad Stephanie is okay!!

And blogs are for complaining. With an audience. ;) I even have little tags for my different types of complaining. Because I'm cranky AND organized!
joshenglish From: [info]joshenglish Date: May 1st, 2008 04:47 pm (UTC) (Link)
I'm not even organized.

I will be returning to this later, I'm sure
From: [info]daveraines Date: May 1st, 2008 07:04 pm (UTC) (Link)

Inconveniences

>> Is this what adulthood is all about, living with these inconveniences?

Maybe so. I've been traveling with my son to look at colleges. I go away thinking, wow, you go to the dining room and someone gives you great food, you have access to coaching and tutoring and great exercise opportunities, you sit down and people teach you things, you don't have a car but you don't need one, you don't have to fix the sink when it leaks; where do I sign up?

Now, I remember from my own experience that it isn't ALL happy happy all the time. But why can't adulthood be more like college? Because somebody has to be the adult, that's why, and my parents are gone.

I'm glad Stephanie is okay. The sound of crunching car is hard to forget.
joshenglish From: [info]joshenglish Date: May 1st, 2008 08:44 pm (UTC) (Link)

Re: Inconveniences

On the bus this morning I had a quick conversation with an older student here. He, too, expressed comfort in school: You get deadlines, you get projects, you have a focus.
Now I don't have anyone outside of my head giving me goals. I have my own focus, but there is really no accountability. Sure, my writing group could say "one story a month or you're out" but it isn't a standard they can live up to either.
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